i have made a total mess of this post. I started by quoting Evie's post, and then I deleted my draft reply, and somehow Evie's quoted post was deleted as well. I can only apologise, Evie, i really didn't mean to do this. For those of you who are not such early birds on here, Evie was objecting to the fact that the heading I had used made explicit the nature of the story about hedgehog abuse, which she did not wish to read. She said that she likes reading the 'innocent chit chat' stories posted in the Dustbath, but isn't able to cope with stories such as the one I posted.
I'm really sorry I upset you, Evie. However, you didn't have to click on the link - the topic heading was intended as a warning.
I also find these things hard to deal with, although I don't believe the answer is to shut our eyes to them. And yes, I love the 'innocent chit chat' in this part of the forum, although I feel that, as we develop bonds of trust with each other as friends, we can sometimes go a bit deeper, explore ideas and feelings which are more serious or personal.
When Practical Poultry forum was in existence, there was a very lively Dustbath section on there, where everybody felt free to explore and disagree on a very wide range of topics as well as jokey chitchat, from Brexit, to adopting rescue dogs, to dealing with racial or sexual prejudice, to disability, to bereavement, or anything else in their adult lives beyond their shared interest in poultry. What was so good about it was that, although the discussions at times got quite heated when people had strong opinions, we all respected and supported each other and nobody resorted to personal abuse.
Until last year, when the ex-Practical Poultry people joined us on here, this section of our forum was little used. You can see this by looking back through the archive, people just didn't use it.
So personally, I feel that for those who want information and help about poultry, there's all the rest of the forum, and for those who also like to discuss anything that might come up in conversation if we could actually meet in person, the Dustbath could be a safe area. However, I accept that this is a moderation issue, particularly so because it was I who posted the original topic and heading which Evie is concerned about, and therefore I would appreciate help and advice from other members about what you want to see on here, and whether we should avoid anything potentially upsetting or controversial. Please let me know whether you feel I crossed a line here, as this sort of thing doesn't come up on here very often, and I feel maybe, that in my own distress about this story, I've made a mistake by posting it.