The referendum was never framed as legally binding on the Government, it was merely advisory. The Government didn't/ doesn't have to pursue it if they consider it not to be in the best national interests of the U.K.
The narrow Leave result has been proven to be influenced by lies about the future benefits of being out of the EU, and by undisclosed overspend on the Leave campaign, which has been legally investigated.
The result was also influenced by the votes of many older people, whereas the consequences of leaving will be felt for the rest of their lives by younger people. The number of people who were too young to vote in 2016 but could now do so, is greater than the number of older people who have since died. So if the referendum were re-run tomorrow, this demographic change would in itself probably change the result.
I find the analogy of buying a house quite compelling. You see a house you might like and put in an offer, which is accepted. You then have a survey done, which reveals all sorts of defects you hadn't realised, some of which appear insoluble. You are then going to need the right to think again about the purchase, aren't you? Especially if the dodgy estate agent has been persuading you to buy it, with false promises that even he now says aren't going to happen.
All over the country, this year, towns and villages are remembering the end of the First World War, and children are being taught that it must never happen again. My own family was torn apart when my father was killed in WW2, but despite that, my mother taught me that not all Germans were bad people, just ordinary people doing what their government told them to, just as my father was.
I believe that, whatever its faults, the E.U. has been a force for good within my lifetime, has been a remarkable union of countries previously at war with each other, and has demonstrated the advantages of united action in many fields, cultural, military, medical, environmental, and educational, to name but a few. It seems terrible to me to want to break away from contributing to this, to isolate ourselves from our nearest neighbours, in ways which now even the Goverment admits are going to make us poorer, less able to travel freely, and more inclined to suspicion and antagonism against those who should be our greatest allies and source of economic strength. Yes the E.U. has many faults, but you can only help to improve and reform a club if you're one of its members and sharing its benefits.
I think the Government, in the sense of the ruling Tory party, is obviously running scared about allowing a second referendum, because if it advised abandoning Brexit, there would be a general election, which they would probably lose. Never mind all the thousands of ordinary people whose jobs would be at risk if Brexit goes through, in whatever form it takes.
And no, I'm not a member of the Labour Party. I used to be, but I resigned this summer, over Corbyn's handling of the Jewish controversy. I have no opinion on whether the Party itself is actually racist, I don't imagine it is, but I thought his failure to deal with the issue promptly an decisively indicated that he would be unable to manage the dilemmas of being P.M. But at least the Labour Party is running on a programme of social change and issues to benefit the lives of ordinary people, who seem to have been largely forgotten in the scramble to Brexit - at whatever cost.
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